Lesson From Social Media Day: I’m An Expert, Too

What I learned on Social Media Day (June 30, 2010)

Yesterday was Social Media Day, as pronounced by Mashable. I only heard about it a few days earlier and I really wasn’t sure what the purpose of a Social Media Day would be, even after reading Mashable’s explanation. But as someone who is, I’ll just say, interested in social media and its future, I didn’t debate whether or not I would participate, but rather debated which local event I would attend.

There were two haphazardly organized events: the first one at Campbell University’s business school nearly an hour from Raleigh and the second one in Cary organized for everyone who didn’t want to drive the distance. I ended up grabbing a ride to the Campbell University event with three other social media buddies (Tedd Huff, Regina Twine, and my sister Rianna Mallard) expecting that there would be between 3-5 informative presentations on real-world business applications of social media. I expected that there would be some talk of local startups I was already familiar with, but I was going there in hopes of learning something new. Because that’s what I do: I go out there, experience, and hope to gain some sort of useful knowledge I didn’t have before.

In a way I sort of did, but not what I expected.

What I really learned is that I am way ahead of the game. I come to these sorts of events from the perspective of a measly 24-year-old college graduate (without a degree in anything like Marketing, Computer Science, Journalism, or Business) with little paid work experience—which, for the past 2 years, has been in the survey research field. I show up as if my mind is an empty receptacle for knowledge from the more experienced professionals.

Normally that’s not a bad angle to take, but not when the discussion is about social media. I’m actually ahead of 99% of the world when it comes to social media. Those of us who are intimately familiar with social media are always complaining about how we hate it when people declare themselves a social media “guru”, “expert” or “aficionado”, or how ridiculous it is when someone starts up a social media consulting business after only creating a Twitter account 6 months ago.

I had this revelation yesterday that I just don’t agree with all that anymore. All of us active social media users tend to run in the same circles and interact with the same people: and it’s a much smaller circle than we think. If you walk out into the street and ask the next 10 people if they know what Twitter is and if they use it, I would bet you that a few wouldn’t even know what Twitter is and if they did, they probably wouldn’t use it. We tend to think that everyone uses social media (and I don’t mean just have a Facebook account) around us, but the truth is that most people still don’t.

Example: When I spoke at the ProductCamp RTP unconference in May, there was a Career Transition Panel session that I was considering attending after my session. We weren’t sure if the session would be useful for us (me & 2 other fellow job-hunting social media users), so we asked the woman running the panel what they would be discussing & if she thought we would benefit from it. She asked us what we were already doing in our job search. We mentioned things like going to networking and tweetup events, blogging regularly about our fields, building a personal brand on Twitter & LinkedIn and managing our Facebook privacy settings. She point blank told us it would be more beneficial for us to attend a different session because we were “already way ahead of the game.”

So if we are already so ahead of the game, why do our peers get irritated when we call ourselves experts? I think it’s a semantic issue. We’re actually social media pioneers. Of course we don’t have all of the answers because the field is changing and evolving so rapidly. I like to call myself a social media experimenter. If I were ever to open a social media consulting business that’s what I would call myself. There are some guidelines to follow, but the rules are changing pretty quickly. I couldn’t guarantee specific results just because they worked in a different situation 2 months ago. A social media “guru” is really just someone having the basics down and be willing to experiment with the tools and rules, whether that be in a business, educational, or job-search setting.

So wake up and realize that the world is actually a really big place! There’s enough room for more social media “experts”. We all just want to help make the world a more social place!

Note: I’m ahead of the game when it comes to social media, but not when it comes to business, marketing, or journalism/writing. I’m actively looking for continuing education in all of those fields, whether that be formal courses, a great blog, a local Raleigh meetup group, or something else I’m not thinking of. Pass on anything you can!
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  • http://twitter.com/_Ashley_Nicole_ Ashley Campbell

    OMG Carlee! The same thing happened to me in April and then again in May! I attended a FourSquare Day TweetUp at a local restaurant who has a stellar marketing maven who organized the event. Once I got there with the aforementioned marketing gal and a friend/fellow freelancer, I realized that we were light years ahead of everyone else there including representatives from several prominent marketing companies.
    In May we attended a social media conference together in the hopes of learning lots, but again was disappointed to find out that it was catering more to hobbyists and those who wanted to start using social media to promote their company, but who hadn't yet begun to do so or were very new to the game.
    I don't consider myself a social media expert by any means (mostly because with everyone claiming the same thing, it doesn't mean much anymore) but I do know that I am way ahead of most people in terms of understanding and utilizing social media effectively.
    I love this post and I you're right, we're not necessarily experts, we're pioneers and experimenters. We are ahead of the curve and understand the power this incredible communication medium provides us. Social media continues to evolve and I'm excited to keep learning! :-)

  • http://carleemallard.com/ Carlee Mallard

    I'm glad you've been experiencing the same sorts of things. I think that for a lot of these social media themed meetups, the problem is that the folks presenting are targeting their presentations for amateurs, beginners, or their target client (i.e. someone who knows they want to use social media but they don't know how). The problem with this is that we're caught somewhere in the in-between — not working at some fancy marketing company where we're expected to be “experts” and teach everyone else but we're way ahead of amateur night.

    Either they need a separate night to teach to the “intermediate level” or something to that effect, or it's going to continue to be fairly useless to us (but don't get me wrong, I still go for the networking just the same).

    One idea I had was to start my own local meetup talking about how Gen Y in my area can utilize social media to their benefit, which in turn would help me learn more by coming at from a different angle. That or a meetup just for everyone else who feels “ahead of the curve” like me and we could push the boundaries even further. Or maybe even a knowledge exchange meetup for Gen Y where we bring in professionals in the fields we're interested in learning more about (like business & journalism for me) so they can teach us what they know and we could teach them about social media in exchange.

    Ahh the possibilities, but continuing to go to these amateur social media nights probably isn't going to help me learn a whole lot more.

    Have you had any ideas for how to fix the “problem” yourself?

    And btw… I definitely do not call myself an expert either, only in the title of the post, haha.

  • http://twitter.com/savagemic Michael Savage

    Good post, Carlee!

    Ryan Allis of iContact in Durham usually has an entrepreneur meetup in Chapel Hill you should checkout.

  • http://carleemallard.com/ Carlee Mallard

    Thanks! Do you have a link to the meetup or his twitter handle? Something a little closer would still be nice, but I'm willing to check it out!

  • http://twitter.com/savagemic Michael Savage

    Just check out the facebook group – http://www.facebook.com/#!/group.php?gid=191391…

    His twitter handle is @ryanallis but he doesn't tweet often mainly just RT's iContact stuff.

  • http://twitter.com/KarlSakas Karl Sakas

    Carlee, I like your “social media experimenter” title. In marketing, I don't have all the answers — but I'm glad to test and track and measure to find what works.

    I recently attended “young professionals” event in the Triangle. I'd written my Twitter handle (@KarlSakas) under my name, like I often do at social media events. A fellow 28-year old asked “Are you…with Karl Sakas?” I joked, “Yes, I'm an expert on Karl Sakas…we go back a long way.” She didn't realize it was a Twitter handle, which reminded me that not everyone uses the service. http://karlsakas.com/dont-go-where-your-custome...

    As for finding other organizations in the Triangle — Refresh the Triangle has good sessions, and I've heard good things about TriUPA (the usability group). Triangle AMA and TIMA have some of the highest-quality marketing events (although TriAMA can by pricey). I've heard good things about IABC, too, the business communication group.

  • http://twitter.com/KarlSakas Karl Sakas

    Carlee, I like your “social media experimenter” title. In marketing, I don't have all the answers — but I'm glad to test and track and measure to find what works.

    I recently attended “young professionals” event in the Triangle. I'd written my Twitter handle (@KarlSakas) under my name, like I often do at social media events. A fellow 28-year old asked “Are you…with Karl Sakas?” I joked, “Yes, I'm an expert on Karl Sakas…we go back a long way.” She didn't realize it was a Twitter handle, which reminded me that not everyone uses the service. http://karlsakas.com/dont-go-where-your-custome...

    As for finding other organizations in the Triangle — Refresh the Triangle has good sessions, and I've heard good things about TriUPA (the usability group). Triangle AMA and TIMA have some of the highest-quality marketing events (although TriAMA can by pricey). I've heard good things about IABC, too, the business communication group.

  • http://twitter.com/_Ashley_Nicole_ Ashley Campbell

    I think starting a meetup would be a great way to collaborate with fellow Gen Y folk about social media! Kansas City is awesome because we have a very active Social Media Club chapter here. Here's their national website where you can check to see if there's one near you: http://www.socialmediaclub.org/

    Our chapter is very diverse in terms of how people use social media, but the content is always relevant to everyone, which is nice :-)

  • http://carleemallard.com/ Carlee Mallard

    Thanks for reminding me about SMC, too. I think I knew we had a chapter here in Raleigh (there's also a very active SM community here), but I've never attended an event. I think I was worried that it would be similar to the experience I already had… a bunch of people gushing about tweeting, checking in, and blogging but not really adding value. I should probably give it a chance, though.

  • http://carleemallard.com/ Carlee Mallard

    Haha that story about the young professional group is funny… but I could definitely see that happening to me, too. I feel like a total dork when I put my twitter handle on my nametag at an event where NOBODY else has their twitter handle, but hey, I'm just trying to help people recognize me, right?

    But yea, out there in the rest of the world people aren't using Twitter like we are. I'd like to just all us… “special”.

    And thanks for the tips on the groups. I'll check them out and see if any of them might be relevant for me. Thanks bunches!

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  • http://twitter.com/ellenlynch ellenlynch

    Carlee, love your point about social media people running in the same circle. I think it does give us a warp sense that everyone knows everything about social media. Sometimes I think I'm behind the curve on social media, and then I go visit family and friends and realize that I'm the 'expert.' I recently had to explain what a hashtag is to a group of people that have been on Twitter for a year. I've also had to explain what LinkedIn is to my father, who is a hiring manager.

  • http://carleemallard.com/ Carlee Mallard

    wow, I understand that some industries have specific hiring practices and that not all companies are going to use LinkedIn in their hiring search, but to not even know what it really is or how to use it… didn't think that still happened!

    I've also noticed though that nobody at my company has a LinkedIn profile and if they do they have like 1-2 connections (so pretty lame), haha. I can't tell if they're just behind the times or just think that they're going to work there for the rest of their lives….? who knows!

  • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

    Dude, I totally know what you mean. Though, I'm based in NYC (I don't know if this makes a difference), and every event I've gone to I've felt really REALLY stupid. Besides that though, I'm an “expert” compared to everyone else I know socially. And I forget they know ZERO about social media and I find myself a) defending my career choice and b) repeating myself. But because we're in this social media bubble it's easier to forget we're actually waaaaayyyy smarter than most people/business/etc when it comes to social networking…. It's really interesting.

  • http://carleemallard.com/ Carlee Mallard

    I would imagine that NYC has shit figured out a little better than most other cities, meaning they probably have more than 2 social media meetups where some are for the true beginners while others are for the more advanced users (where you probably feel dumb). Here though there's one meetup where all the beginners, intermediates and advanced kids go. I would LOVE to feel stupid at at least one event!

    I can see defending your career to people who don't understand social media, but do you ever find yourself having to defend your career in social media to other social media professionals (meaning other people who think YOU don't know what YOU'RE talking about)? I wonder how much of that goes on…. I know personally I've doubted some social media consultants' competencies, but then feel bad because heck, we're all in the same boat!

  • http://marianlibrarian.com Marian Schembari

    I've never had to defend myself to other social media people, but I DO find myself having no idea what they're talking about. That said, I usually am really upfront about not knowing something and it's always a lot friendlier after that ;-) I've also never met a social media consultant who doesn't know what they're doing but I've “met” plenty of them on Twitter. I think that's what bothers me the most. When I see social media “experts” online completely fucking around and generally doing it the unethical way. I wonder how many paying clients they actually have or if most of their followers are just spam…

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